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Lee Bacon's avatar

Before having kids of my own, I felt sorry for writers with kids. They had so much less time, and a different set of priorities. I assumed this made them inferior writers. Then I became a parent, and I realized--it's ok to care about other things. To put family above myself, and my books. I'm sure I could've written a few more books if I didn't have children pulling my attention in a million different directions. But I'm not actually sure they'd be better books. Children open your eyes to a wealth of new experiences and emotions. This has the potential to make you a better writer with a deeper well to draw from.

Great post!

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Amran Gowani's avatar

Beautiful piece of writing, Andrew. It's a privilege to know you and big ups for becoming the kind of dad you always wanted.

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